Wednesday, January 15, 2025

2024 - Book list

For official purposes here is the books we read in 2024

 

Magnificent Rebels

The Bee Sting, Paul Murray

Know My Name: A Memoir, Chanel Miller

Day, A Novel (voted least favorite book)

James  Percival Everett(voted favorite book)

An Immense World

Martin Marten

Sharp: The Women Who Made An Art of Having an Opinion

Orbital

Heaven & Earth Grocery Store


Comments made during the discussion:


Day was "a let down", "forgettable", and "deeply disappointing from Michael Cunningham".   "Oh, Michael, why did you do this to me?, I trusted you."


Know My Name: A Memoir "I didn't want to read this, but it says with me."  "I think about her experience as I watch what's going on in the world.".  This book was so impactful.  "How can you NOT vote for this as book of the year!?"


Sharp: The Women Who Made An Art of Having an Opinion:  "This book should have been so much more."  "I thought I was going to learn something, or be inspired."


James: So clever, I read parts out loud to my partner,


An Immense World:  "What was that one about?"  (Thomas Goetz takes readers on a captivating journey into the sensory realms of the animal kingdom, offering a fascinating exploration of how different creatures perceive and interact) "Oh yeah, that was good. 


Heaven & Earth Grocery Store;  "Did we read that in 2024"  "yes, we discussed it in February", "Really..." 


Our favorite read of 2024



Monday, January 15, 2024

2023 Books and votes for favorite


Books from 2023

The Magician, Colm Toibin
Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow, Gabrielle Zevin
Dinners with Ruth, A memoir on the power of friendship, Nina Totenberg
The Invention of Nature, Alexander Humboldt’s New World, Andrea Wulf
The Dictionary of Lost Words, Pip Williams
Forbidden Notebook, Alba de Cespedes
Refuge, Terry Tempest Williams
Magnificent Rebels, Andrea Wulf

Refuge and Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow were top votes for best book.

Dinners with Ruth was the least favorite 

Wednesday, April 19, 2023

Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow: A novel

 

NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER • Sam and Sadie—two college friends, often in love, but never lovers—become creative partners in a dazzling and intricately imagined world of video game design, where success brings them fame, joy, tragedy, duplicity, and, ultimately, a kind of immortality. It is a love story, but not one you have read before.

 

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow follows Sam and Sadie through their childhood meeting, college reunification and the development and success of their business.   

Gabrielle Zevin does a masterful job of maturing the voices of each character over the years and the technical aspects of describing the games they created was detailed and fun to follow.   

As a kid of the 80's the evolution of online games from the Oregon Trail to the role playing games of today is a journey worthy of understanding.  It is a great metaphor for the changes we go through as we become fully formed people.  How the experiences in our lives make for a richer, more colorful experience.

Zevin uses the two characters to narrate from their own perspective, but it isn't repetitive and each has a unique view and of course different priorities and drivers.  

As a story of a lifelong friendship, the cadence also rings true.  Sometimes the friends are in lock step, lives intertwined and at others they are separated but still care deeply for another.  

I appreciated that the characters loved one another, but didn't have to have a grand romantic arc. 

Read:  April 19, 2023
Met: @ Beth's
Book Choice: Melinda

Friday, January 27, 2023

1000 Years of Joys and Sorrows: A Memoir

 


1000 Years of Joys and Sorrows: A Memoir by Ai WeiWei


Chinese artist Ai WeiWei tells the story of his life, the influences, and the impact of his work on the world. 

Art is protest, art is communication, art is a voice for those who cannot speak.  Ai WeiWei transforms life into experiences.  As a citizen of China WeiWei was not always free to express criticism of life in China, always under surveillance and often in disfavor WeiWei describes his story of detention, government removal of his art, hidden meanings in his works, and a total devotion to his work.

As a child of the poet Ai Qing, WeiWei was often exiled with his father during times when the popularity of Ai Quig was trouble for the Chinese leadership.  Childhood was feast followed by famine, comforts given and taken, accolades given and then public shaming for being too visible.   These experiences shaped WeiWei into someone who focused on his works to the (in my opinion) detriment of others.   

As a memoir, WeiWei focuses on the events that are to him meaningful and important.  A great insight into the mind of an artist, but he tells on himself a bit with the handling of his wife, partner and child.   A bit dismissive of that aspect of his life.

Ai WeiWei, as an artist is diverse in his mediums and this memoir walks us through some of the processes of his most notable works.   


 
Read:  January 2023
Met:  Heather's
Picker:  Heather

Thursday, January 20, 2022

Book of the year 2021 and other things...

 Our end of year wrap up ended up returning to the zoom format because a few of us had close calls with exposures.  In spite of not being together in person, this was a fun, joyous and energetic gathering. 

Mid-meeting wine run

We started the gathering with a great discussion of our final book for 2021, Calm Sea and Prosperous Voyage by Bette Howland.   A book of short stories can be hard to discuss because of the lack of a through plot and common characters, but not this one.  Ms. Howland created rich details that brought you into the space where her characters were.  Dark and not uplifting was one comment but others found interest in the planning of a funeral, the frustration of obligatory time with family and other 'every day' life events.  Certainly a worthwhile read. 

We turned our attention to the discussion of our favorite and least favorite (never "worst") book of the year.  I am still living in constant fear that the author of a "worst" book will again google themselves to find that our group of seven readers has mortally wounded their pride and that we may be invited to a duel.  I don't like conflict and as I only dabble in sarcasm I am afraid of those who have mastered the art of prose.  Therefore we will refrain evermore from the use of the word worst to describe our least favorite book of the year.

HOWEVER, with a solid majority and very little surprise or argument from the minority the clear winner of our least favorite was "50 words for rain".   This book should have been a beautiful novel of love, loss, grace, forgiveness, finding one's purpose under the epic backdrop of post WWII for the ages, but it was not.  Imagine the fan fiction journal of a millennial 15 year old who has never been kissed or left their hometown of Springfield, wherever writing about the complexities of racism in a country, culture and era never explored beyond watching an anime movie or two.  Then throw in some plot twists like sexual assault that is almost instantly forgiven without any trauma, grief, blame and heck, let's just make the main character fall in love with that guy because he is of course, beautiful, rich and charming.  👀.  Of course he is.  Anywho...this was a literal car crash that needed an editor.  Acknowledging that storytelling is hard, we are hopeful that as the author matures better content will come.  

The discussion for the favorite book of the year was far more varied.  The field of books that we loved was many in 2021.  With the bonus reading titles off the table for consideration, the much appreciated "A Children's Bible" and "The Cold Millions" made room for the primary books.

Hidden Valley Road, No No Boy, Hamnet and Calm Seas and Prosperous Voyage all received ardent votes for favorite.  

Damnation Springs and Unbound each were noted as "very good".  

It's a good problem to have that we loved most of what we read in 2021.  We decided to let our 'favorite' be a three-way-tie:

Hidden Valley Road, Inside the Mind of an American Family by Robert Kolker

 No-No Boy John Okada

Hamnet by Maggie O'Farrell

Each was completely different and wonderful.   HVR, is an exploration of mental illness in one family and a frustrating study in the pharmaceutical industry exploring that it is profits that drive innovation and not need. 

No-No Boy explored the often ignored history of the American Japanese experience of  the aftermath of the war and those who would not or could not join in to fight with the US in the land of their ancestors. 

Hamnet is a fanciful dip into the household of William Shakespeare and the family he left behind to be a poet and play writer.  He's not the main character of this story and it is marvelous.   


Wednesday, January 12, 2022

2021 Booklist



 50 Words for Rain

A Burning

Minor Feelings, An Asian American Reckoning

A Children’s Bible (extra credit)

Hidden Valley Road

No-No Boy

We Here By Refuse (extra credit)

Punch Me Up to the Gods

Hamnet

The Cold Millions (extra credit)

Unbound

Damnation Spring

Calm Sea and Prosperous Voyage


Saturday, November 13, 2021

Friday, March 5, 2021

Book of the year 2020

 Our list of books in 2020:

 

Fierce Attachments, Vivian Gornick

Extra credit: Belonging, Nora Krug

Rebecca, Daphne Du Maurier

Small Fry, Lisa Brennan Jobs

The Book of Delights, Ross Gay

Fascism, Madeline Albright

What Alice Forgot, Liane Moriarty

Hot Milk, Deborah Levy

The Warmth of Other Suns, Isabelle Wilkerson

Transcendent Kingdom, Yaa Gyasi

Amateur, A Reckoning with Gender, Identity and Masculinity

Deacon King Kong, James McBride


It's a rare year where we have twelve (eleven if we remove the extra credit book) books to choose from.   Many of these titles were loved and there was a lot of discussion about possibly choosing a favorite fiction and non-fiction this year.  


We tried to each list our favorite two titles, and it went south pretty quickly.  


H: 1) Deacon King Kong
2) Warmth of other Suns


B: 1) Warmth of other Suns (woos)

    2 a) Amateur

        b) Rebecca

       c) Fascism

        d) Deacon King Kong


M 1) WOOS

     2) a) Rebecca

         b) Amateur


A: 1) WOOS

     2) Rebecca


T) Transcendent Kingdom

     Fascism


D) WOOS

      Fascism / Rebecca


Clearly the Warmth of Other Suns wins hands down as the favorite read for 2020, but then the debate about number two evolved into a great discussion about how Deacon King Kong, Fascism and Rebecca were superb reads.  That brought up the love for the Book of Delights.


We agreed that there were no stinkers this year, but that there were a couple that might not have been worth the time during this crazy busy year.  One was described as a "written for the planned Netflix adaptation."   2022 edit:  What Alice Forgot (still not a Netflix movie.)


Then we did something that we've never done, we discussed our favorite "worst" character.  We decided that descriptions of real people disqualify as they might have been just terrible people.  The overwhelming love was for the dastardly evil and malicious housekeeper at Manderley,  Mrs. Danvers.  



Mrs. Danvers (Judith Anderson, actress)


Thursday, January 28, 2021

Deacon King Kong, McBride

Our last discussion of the final 2020 book.   Books selected in the year are in the running for Book of the Year even if the discussion happens in January.

Meeting on zoom isn't as much fun as being in person, but there is a bit of charm to it.  We get to see and hear all the happy dogs, spouses pop in with food and beverages, and every once in a while we get to wave to a teen coming home from wherever teens go during a pandemic.

We've been together for so long, that now the babies are off to college.  Well, with the exception of the two late starters - we're navigating elementary and middle school and can see the look of relief on the faces of our fellow bibliophiles that they are past the pre-teen stage. 

Last night we discussed Deacon King Kong, by James McBride.   Our discussions are always pretty short when everyone loves the book and last night it was a very short love fest.   McBride weaves a funny story and creates memorable characters who you can clearly see in your mind.  More than one comment was made that this book will be a great movie it's actually being worked on as a TV show.  Thankfully McBride is part of the script writing team, which means the show will be delicious. 

I'm thankful for an author who doesn't need to wrap every loose end up in a tidy bow.  Life is not always like that, and a bit of wonder is good for the soul.   

Prediction:  this one will rise to the top of the heap for 2020.





Monday, December 21, 2020

One last meeting for 2020

 It's winter solstice, the shortest night of the year.   The Seattle weather people are predicting unusual weather.  It was 57 degrees at my house at noon, and now, at 4 it's 49 and raining like a boat will be floating by shortly.   The kid thinks that she heard about "low land snow". 

So, it's dark, rainy, and there's also a pandemic.  Best have a book club outside!  We are hearty northwestern ladies so that's exactly what we'll do.  Melinda has a tent and heaters.   We have rain gear, blankets, and face masks.   It should be fun!

 I'm happy to report that even though the year was not as expected, we managed to keep up our reading schedule and actually accelerate it for the last two months of the year.   I mean, it's not like we had to commute for hours each day.

Think dry thoughts! 

Wednesday, May 27, 2020

So behind...

I updated the book list with the books I can find that we've read.  The order is wrong and some are missing, so I'll get with our unofficial historian for her lists and make the updates.

We had a vote for our favorite books for 2019 and The Overstory came out on top with Half of a Yellow Sun a close second.   We were all impacted by the brutality of Friday Black as well.

The Testimates didn't sit well with us, which was disappointing because The Handmaids Tale felt so relevant.   One comment was that this followup novel felt like a way for Ms. Atwood to get some creative control over the television series and move the narrative in a direction that she wanted. 

Monday, March 11, 2019

We're still going strong, but...

who has time to blog anymore?

We've read some great books in the last year and are currently reading two for our meeting this Wednesday.  

Our favorite book for 2018 was "Pachinko" with the "Late Homecomer" and "Sing Unburied Sing" coming in strong.

A horse walks into a bar and The Gathering did not resonate with us.

Other titles in 2018 included "The Power", "Less", "Musicophelia" and "The house of broken Angels"

So far in 2019, we've read "An American Marriage" by Tayari Jones and "Leadership" by Doris Kern Goodwin.

Toni Morrison's The Bluest Eye is on deck as well as "The Fucks you give".   

Wednesday, October 5, 2016

2016 Recaps (thus far)

The Turner House
A stately house in Detroit is all but abandoned, but the thirteen children who lived there with their parents are determined to save it in spite of the value.  The dwelling is the center of the story of the siblings, their parents and a snapshot of life in modern Detroit.  ChaCha is the oldest of the siblings and is determined to find out if his haint (apparition) is real.  The youngest sister is a portrait of the struggle to be an adult and face the consequences of your own actions. 

A Man Called Ove
Give the curmudgeon in your life a second look.  Maybe he’s soft and squishy on the inside or at least worthy of the effort to befriend.  Ove is cranky, holds a grudge and likes things just so.  He's not the first cranky old man we've read about but he may be our favorite.


Girls & Sex
The seven of us think we are pretty aware of how things go these days when it comes to sexual awareness and experiences of women.  However, we learned a lot while reading this study of young college aged women and their sexual interactions.  The first take away for us was that the sex-ed classes we got in the 1980’s hasn’t changed much, it is very focused on the male sexual response, and reproduction.  Sounds good right, but no one talks to girls/women about their sexual response, what they can and should expect?  Sex Ed for girls still has a shame factor and has lots of repercussions as girls turn into women who have sexual interactions with others (or themselves). 

We were shocked to read that many of the women interviewed reported that they used oral sex as a way to end a date with someone they didn’t want to have sex with.  WHAT!?  How is that better? 
The discussion over dinner went on and on and on, and when our hostesses’ family came home the teenagers ran for the safety of their own spaces and their dad joined us for a brief moment before realizing we were in deep on topics that weren’t really meant for mixed company.
This book has been characterized by us as a horror genre.  We clearly have a lot of work to do to help our own daughters as they grow up. 

The Sellout, Paul Beatty
An alternate version of the modern day inner city community as told thru the voice of a black small businessman who somehow becomes a slave owner in an attempt to save his corner of Los Angeles.  The language is uncomfortable, the story telling is humorous and awkward, but the lens Mr. Beatty uses to explain this “fake” world says more about how we live today than an academic study of racism or poverty. 

The story has an arc, but each chapter is a contained exploration of a thought, experience or topic the author wants to explore.  It isn’t always easy to see where that chapter might lead, but we were happy to go.

Station Eleven, Emily St. John Mandel
A sweeping plague, survivors and actors oh my!  If you set aside the extreme unlikeliness of survivors having being connected (even tenuously) in the pre-plague world this is a fantastic book.  The concept is dark to be sure, how could it not be with the majority of people on earth being dead but unlike The Walking Dead, or Camus’ The Plague, or even Blindness the worst of humanity is not the primary result of all the loss.  Ms. St. John Mandel finds hope and connectivity as our band of survivors make their way to Station Eleven.  There is loss, there is the brutal reality of what one might need to do to survive but it is not a lord of the flies situation. 

Little Failure, Shteyngas, Gary
A humorous look at the life of a Russian immigrant.  (Have to admit – didn’t finish it.  This was not a failing on the book, but a lack of time management.)

Inside the O'Briens by Lisa Genova

Because we loved the book Inside Alice we gave this novel a try.  She so adeptly explored early onset Alzheimer’s that the impact on a large family when the father’s Huntington’s disease progresses.   

For the most part, we all finished the book and had a robust conversation about the story, the characters but our discussion revolved around the difference in the story telling between Alice and the O’Briens.  Inside Alice really brought us into the headspace, fear and uncertainty of Alice as her illness progressed, the story of the O’Briens was far more focused on the family and their relationship with the father than the impact of the illness.    

Tuesday, August 9, 2016

2015 Book List


(not in order)
My Brilliant Friend, Elena Ferrante
A tale for the time being, Ruth Ozeki
The Door, Magda Szabo
Brown Girl Dreaming, Jaqueline Woodson
Dept. of Speculation, Jenny Offill
Billy Lynn's Long Half Time Walk,
Reading Like A Writer, Francine Prose
Asunder, Close Ardjis
The Short Tragic Lift of Robert Pace
Brain on Fire, Susannah Cahalan
The Beautiful Things That Heaven Bears, Dinaw Mengetsu
Boys In The Boat

Favorite: A Tale for the Time Being
2nd:Boys in the boat & Billy Lynn 

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

2014 Booklist

2014 Book List

Goldfinch
Sense of an ending
American Wife
House in the sky
Orphan Master's Son
The Painter
Transatlantic
Americanah 

Book of the Year:
Orphan Master's Son

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

2 for 1

Ok, I'm super behind again.

During the annual weekend away, an accounting was done of the books from this year and it turns out I missed the write up for The Snow Child.  So here we go:

The Snow Child, Eowyn Ivey

Fiction is so wonderful when it can make you set aside what you know to be real and allow you to live in a world where anything is possible.  It's Alaska in the 1920's and Jack and Mabel are barely making it.  He works and works and works to keep their Alaska homestead alive and she's doing her part but lonely and heartbroken for the child they didn't have.  They find a moment to play in the snow and form a snow child.

Either through magic or fortune soon they encounter Faina, a lovely girl with blonde hair and a fox for a friend.  Faina saves them, or they save her - either way it's charming and regardless of all the evidence it's never really clear if she's real.

Among our group there was great debate upon the meaning of the ending of this tale, which leads me to believe that the ending was intentionally misleading. Consensus was positive on this particular book.


Weekend away!

Every year we try to plan two extra curricular activities.  The first is the spouse dinner.  This is a challenge to find a night when fourteen people can gather at one time and child care can be obtained for eleven shorties.  We've managed it for the last four years and will keep booking it.

The other event is even harder to arrange.  A weekend where we ladies zip away from our broods and gather in a cozy cottage to dine on chocolate and other yummy foods, hike, do some yoga and of course, talk about the book du jour.   Last year, we were warned away from our hosts cabin in Leavenworth because of late season fires and terrible air quality and this year an early winter storm kept us on the west side of the state.  Lucky for us, our group has some great connections and we fell into comfortable lodgings both times.   This year found us in a charming water front cabin on Vashon Island that snuggly sleeps twelve or very comfortably sleeps seven.

 

One of the things about the cabin that added to its wonderfulness is that you can't simply drive to the door.  There is a group parking lot and then you have to walk about a third of a mile to the 11th house on the shore.  The walk was quiet and with each step the hustle of life "on land" faded away.

Our book for discussion was "How To Be a Woman".   Part memoir, part stand alone essays on feminism it opened the door for a lengthy discussion on topics that we ladies seldom get into with each other.

I'm sure it would be an easy thing to assume that when gals get together and shut the door they talk about body hair, dating and their weight.  We really don't delve into those areas very often.

Filled with funny moments and a rather long discussion about what to name your vagina (Oh yes, I went there.) this isn't the Susan B. Anthony women's suffrage version of feminism.  It's a straight forward look at our lives today and what it means as we navigate a world where we have to balance people like Kim Kardashian who are famous for goodness knows what, and Nancy Pelosi who is demonized for I'm not sure what maybe being a prickly woman with opinions and being moms, women who have serious jobs.  We're told that we're equal, but the tend to typically fill the board room in the Communications and Human Resources positions.

While the book evoked a long discussion that lasted well into Sunday, we soundly didn't think we liked the author.  The tone of the book was chatty and casual.  Perhaps that's her way of balancing the deep topics she was tackling.

I do give her kudos for not shying away from an unpopular topic.  She and her husband chose to terminate a pregnancy after they had other children.  She writes about this with complete openness and acknowledgement that her decision will be (was) questioned and reviled by many.








Friday, October 4, 2013

Still Alice


As food themes go, I'd like some credit for finding a wine called "Educated Guess" for a story about a Harvard professor with early-onset Alzheimer disease.

With that out of the way, let's talk about this book.

Heartbreaking, amazing, moving, scary and thought provoking.  These are just some of the comments from last nights discussion.

Alice is a respected and beloved Harvard professor who is asked to speak all over the world.  She notices that her reliance on her notes is becoming critical, so she gets it checked out.  The diagnosis, early onset Alzheimer's.

We follow her through the journey of telling her husband, her kids, having to step down at work and the shrinking of her social and physical world.   We are equally frightened of the truth regarding her situation and the terrible impact to Alice and her family.

Because the story is told from her perspective, as things become confusing or 'new' to her our understanding of the narrative shifts.  At first Alice is giving us the nuanced details of a complicated mother & daughter dynamic which eventually devolves into her describing her daughter as that woman with the baby.

Some of us powered through this book in a couple sittings and were moved to tears (me publicly on an airplane) and others were so torn apart by the devastation that they had to read it in small chunks just to not be brokenhearted.

Our appreciation for the research and effort put into this book is great.  We can understand why it is recommended to the caregivers of patients with early-onset Alzheimer's.  

This type of Alzheimer's has a high probability of being genetic, and if you have the gene the likelihood of developing the disease is almost certain.  The author explored the implications of these facts with Alice's three children.  Would you want to know?  It's hard to say.

Our discussion moved to assisted suicide, to estate planning and to the dreaded question of 'who will raise our kids if we're gone.  So many real life issues.

 The book was so well done that it is easy to think of it as non-fiction.  That's a compliment Miss Lisa Genova.  Good work!

Albert of Adelaide

Wanted!



If you want to sound like a crazy person, please describe the book Albert of Adelaide to someone.

Well, it's about this platypus who escapes from a zoo and heads to the Australian outback and along the way is embroiled in an old western shoot out, makes friends with a wombat and has to deal with a gang of kangaroos, thieves and deadly dingoes.  Yes, a gun slinging platypus.

It's been a while since we've read a western, and this one is superb.  The author Howard Anderson has written a fun, and engaging novel.

Our discussions ranged from surprise over the depth of appreciation for the story and the depth of character development to the nuances of social norms and mythical stature that grows when you only know one dimension about an individual.

  


And The Mountains Echoed

Khaled Hosseini has produced a third book that is equally worth reading.  Author of the Kite Runner and A thousand splendid suns, Hosseini tells us a winding story of intersecting lives that spans continents, generations and families.

Each chapter is told from a different persons point of view and slowly the truth about a father's dreadful choice becomes known and the broad impact unfolds.

We enjoyed this book and I'm sorry to have to admit that it's been 3 or 4 months since our discussion and any remarkable or notable comments from the group have been pushed aside in my memory.

We did note that the style of story telling was remarkably different than his other two novels, and that it took a while for some of us to realize that he was never going to circle back and repeat a narrator.  Freed of that expectation, the story began to crystallize as the characters started overlapping into the chapters and the overall story became clear.